We had posted about this yesterday; Meir Dov Gold a"h a 13 year-old boy, hung himself because his vengeful mother refused to allow Meir Dov's father to attend his bar-mitzvah!
Well, he may have missed the Bar-Mitzvah, but he did get to eulogize him! Tragic when parents mix their children into their disputes! What a waste! The father in his eulogy mentions the fact that Meir Dov a"h never met his first cousins!
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So heartbreaking there are no words
Unfortunately the hard hearted spouses
(Usually the mother ) and her cohorts which many times are ‘well meaning=hell going Asskonim and will not be moved by this broken hearted fathers words,
And will continue in their evil ways justifying themselves with hogwash that in Their situation they are correct and this trend will continue until moshiach comes unless indeed that stubborn heart soften to the terrible reality and direct consequences of their evil ways.(I’m am happily married and looking at this situation as an outsider)
Especially to those asskonim STOP 🛑
paving your path to hell
There are fathers who sexually abuse their daughters and sons.There are men who don’t want to give a get and men who hide their real income so they don’t have to pay for support, yeshiva tuition, refilin, Bar Mitzva lessons, Bar Mitzva seuda, wedding s , etc. My mother was a young widow and most of her friends were women who were divorced. I think divorced parents should act kindly to one another.Respecting your child’s other aren’t is good for your children. But if you are dealing with evil, severely neurotic, or psychotic parent , you have to protect the child and yourself.I was never divorced , but I have been active in helping agunos. It’s so sad to see how evil men can ruin an innocent woman’s life, and the lives of their children.
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In this particular case the woman was the devil! They were divorced many years ago and if you heard the eulogy, the boy never met his first cousins. In addition the boy was constantly contacting his father reaching out to him even a week before his bar mitzvah. This was not an "aguna" case and was not a "support case" it was stam "rishus"
Open the link but had to shut it.
I couldn't watch....
Insane what's going on.
So basically you're ok with the results.
Sick dude.
Problem is people takes sides with believing one side without knowing all facts unless a spouse is a real abusive drug addiction the parents should be able to see the children and even if they are abusive they can have visitation with supervision don’t let Flatbush girl convince you otherwise
Many people and their supporters want us to stay on Golus.
I heard from a wise man that does in ahavas yisroel. If you want to be comfortable in golus, I guess talk about sheitlach, internet, even chesed. But if we wanna get out of here, it’s sinas chinom we need to get rid of.
How true. Aren’t these stories talking about people that are using resentment just to cause pain on their ex spouse and then cause things like this? So, even the hate is keeping us here but to be responsible for a suicide? How far have we gone from our father in heaven? What’s going on? Why aren’t there articles about this?
Why are we busy with this or that Rebbe or Rosh Yeshiva only?
At least we had Rabbi Edelstein on OTD that tried to knock some sense into our stubborn minds. And of course, anyone (even a godul) challenging our way of doing things (“TRADITION”), is disregarded. Shame…
Were Gelbstein family members by the levaya ?
This is heartbreaking. I am hoping and praying that someone gets involved and makes sure that the abuse will not continue and that that the daughter should go live with the father if this is the case.
I have a friend that the ex won't let the kids be in touch with the Mother already 11!!!! years. His family very Chashuv (R Tzvi Kaplan is the father's brother) help and encourage this further. Money does not speak Money screams.... והמבין יבין
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