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The Holy Mothers of New Square and Their Mesiras Nefesh for the Cause
In every era, Klal Yisrael produces women of extraordinary mesiras nefesh. In our own generation, that devotion has taken on a modern form:
signing mortgage documents and renting out homes to multiple families in an area when this is illegal and unjust.
For the sake of their Torah brethren and sisters living within the mile, certain mothers – women with families of their own – have stepped forward to place down payments, sign notes, and take title to homes in neighborhoods nearby – allegedly so that their fellow
Yiddishe sisters are made to feel uncomfortable.
This is no small act. Mortgages are not flyers. They are sworn documents.
By way of example:
Mrs. Leah Breier
Public mortgage records reflect a 2024 purchase of a property on
Dorothy Road, Spring Valley, with the borrower’s mailing address listed
as 53 Reagan Road, New Square.
Mrs. Chave Wolodarsky
Public mortgage filings reflect a 2023 purchase of a property on
Durante Court, with the borrower’s mailing address listed as 29
Ostilla Ave., New Square.
As has been previously noted, this home is located across from one of
the many Shuls located “within the mile.”
Mrs. Miriam Soifer
Public mortgage documents reflect a 2022 purchase of a property on
Dwight Avenue, a home “within the mile” with the borrower’s mailing
address listed as 24 Jackson Ave., New Square
Again: these are not allegations. These are descriptions of public filings. And don’t think for a second these women are in an exclusive club of women who “showed up” for the cause. There are many more to report.
Mortgage agreements in the United States are not ceremonial. They require the signer to certify – explicitly – that the property will be used in compliance with all zoning, housing, and municipal codes. The obligation rests with the person whose name appears on the document. Not with a neighbor. Not with an advisor. Not with someone “higher
up.”
And yet, the lived reality for surrounding families raises difficult questions.
One has to wonder:
What would their children say if it were happening next door to them?
Do they even have a say?
Or are these women being asked – quietly, dutifully – to serve as
names on paper so others remain invisible?
Because it is notable that we do not often see homes titled in the names of those most vocal in pushing these arrangements. Responsibility, it seems, is frequently outsourced.
For the sake of what?
This is not about shaming mothers. Accountability must apply evenly –just like anyone else.
In Torah life, we do not justify harm to other Yidden because “someone
told us to.”
Because when you sign your name on a mortgage, you are not a pawn.
You are the owner.
You are the responsible party.
And there is one rule that transcends satire, zoning, and documents alike:
You don’t hurt Yidden. End of story.
