tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post5945875843890185250..comments2024-03-28T11:05:13.231+02:00Comments on DUS IZ NIES !! Rare View...: Satmar couple’s kinky open marriage Dusiznieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17159854165651441155noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-41194271867296933752017-03-30T03:18:36.867+03:002017-03-30T03:18:36.867+03:00This is fd up but not a bit surprising even if thi...This is fd up but not a bit surprising even if this is someones made up fantasy their are real cases of this<br />Eg http://rapandradiony.blogspot.com/2017/03/you-can-follow-me-on-twitter.html?m=0Steve Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10941720337120811486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-85863319653202291912017-03-20T21:52:40.066+02:002017-03-20T21:52:40.066+02:00Well, some. But others are really chassidim!Well, some. But others are really chassidim!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-32811054141599513512017-03-20T18:46:09.928+02:002017-03-20T18:46:09.928+02:00AishKodesh,
Thank you for the replies.
I think st...AishKodesh,<br /><br />Thank you for the replies.<br />I think striving to be a more pious, honest, loving person is a great thing. But the labels can be confusing, distracting, and lend themselves to phoniness and elitism.<br /><br />"It can be very hard to become somebody in the "in-crowd""<br /><br />It's just the "in-crowd" part that's hard (it's an invention by men).<br />The being somebody part is easy (it's a blessing from God).<br /><br />"If you are talking about 'Chosid' in terms of a Chassidishe person, then no. Unfortunately, there are, as you know, some not-so-great people who still bear the title 'Chosid'! And is every pious person a Chosid? -- yes. That is what a Chosid is -- not someone who only "dresses the part". "<br /><br />This is why I don't buy into all the labels anymore (even if hard to avoid them). Some religious Jews play the part deceptively. That the name Chassidim implies their adherents are pious (chosid in the general sense) strikes me as somewhat silly and too often very misleading. I used to see them as their name implied. Now I see a picture that's probably closer to reality, one that looks more like the "in-crowd" you describe above.Chafraud-Depravitchhttps://chafrauddepravitch.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-60095388225767373922017-03-20T15:54:15.211+02:002017-03-20T15:54:15.211+02:00Chafraud-Depravitch 4:48 AM:
=====================...Chafraud-Depravitch 4:48 AM:<br />==========================<br /><br />You are certainly correct. It can be very hard to become somebody in the "in-crowd" -- sometimes it seems nearly impossible.<br /><br />However, to answer your questions about my comment: (One preliminary note: When I say Chosid, I do not mean someone part of a Chassidishe sect -- I mean any pious person, whether they wear a Bekishe or a yellow shirt): <br /><br />1) "Why desire to try?" <br />Every person should at least desire to become righteous. And that helps us become one.<br /><br />2) "But why try to be?" <br />Everyone should try to become a Tzaddik -- and a Chosid as well.<br /><br />3) "What exactly is a "real" chosid? Who decides if you're "real" or not?" <br />Being a real Chosid means being a real pious person -- not just someone, for example, who wears a black hat or Streimel and actually likes to treat others badly and go to bars, etc. And who decides? HaKadosh Baruch Hu -- just like all other areas of our life!<br /><br />4) "Is the condition permanent if you finally become a real chosid? Or can you, at some later time, become an unreal chosid?" <br />Well, a person can rise or, C"V, descend at any time. It's all up to us.<br /><br />5) "Is every "chosid" pious? Is every pious person a "chosid?"" <br />If you are talking about 'Chosid' in terms of a Chassidishe person, then no. Unfortunately, there are, as you know, some not-so-great people who still bear the title 'Chosid'! And is every pious person a Chosid? -- yes. That is what a Chosid is -- not someone who only "dresses the part". <br /><br />Kol Tuv!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-42403484733772572392017-03-20T15:07:45.881+02:002017-03-20T15:07:45.881+02:00Yes what this couple is doing is disgusting and ag...Yes what this couple is doing is disgusting and against HALACHA,but what their so called Rebbe that criminal gangster KAPO bastard Aron Teitel-bum did was a thousand times worse.<br />When the prime minister of Israel was here last year pleading and begging congress to oppose Obama's murderous nuclear deal that would enable Iran to eventually acquire nuclear weapons and fulfill their dream of wiping out Israel and it's six and a half miilion Jews,this piece of filth instructed his mayor of Kiryas Joel to write letters to all the N.y congressmen and senators to ignore Israel and support Obama's murderous deal with the devil.<br />Now you tell me,which is the bigger sin?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-61784176443891229262017-03-20T10:58:03.621+02:002017-03-20T10:58:03.621+02:00AishKodesh,
You're welcome regarding the comm...AishKodesh,<br /><br />You're welcome regarding the comment about your blog. I like your citations and the layout is clean. It's a good learning blog. In this week's parsha you cite comments by the Kotzker Rebbe, and the first Gerrer Rebbe, Rebbe Yitzchok Meir Alter. And though they may offer a kernel of wisdom; in light of this thread topic it's hard to ignore they're the fathers of the Gur hasidim (sometimes spelled Ger), one of the most sexually repressive hasidic sects. I don't know how they compare to Satmar, but Gur have been criticized for their extreme stance by other haredim as well.<br /><br />"And about not being an insider or a real Chosid if you weren't born that way -- I desire to try to be a REAL Chosid -- a pious person..... Everyone can become a Chosid, that is, a pious person, Be"H. "<br /><br /><br />I don't know your history, but if you don't have hasidic pedigree, it's a significant handicap, if not a barrier, to full social acceptance in those communities.<br /><br />Also what does "desire to try to be a REAL Chosid" mean?<br />Why desire to try? Just try. But why try to be? Just be it, even if 'in-progress.' What exactly is a "real" chosid? Who decides if you're "real" or not? Is the condition permanent if you finally become a real chosid? Or can you, at some later time, become an unreal chosid? Is every "chosid" pious? Is every pious person a "chosid?"Chafraud-Depravitchhttps://chafrauddepravitch.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-42426699040762471932017-03-19T20:41:14.815+02:002017-03-19T20:41:14.815+02:0012:04 PM
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You can't say that for all ...12:04 PM<br />========<br /><br />You can't say that for all of them. But yeah, I do agree that some of the people today are really not doing justice to what Chassidus -- or Judaism in general -- is supposed to be. <br /><br />And about not being an insider or a real Chosid if you weren't born that way -- I desire to try to be a REAL Chosid -- a pious person..... Everyone can become a Chosid, that is, a pious person, Be"H. AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-37797780504672141672017-03-19T18:04:51.101+02:002017-03-19T18:04:51.101+02:00Aish Kodesh
You're either very naive, or just...Aish Kodesh <br />You're either very naive, or just plain stupid.<br />Satmar Sqvere Gur are all fanatic so called Chasidim ruled and lead by even greater fanatic gurus.<br />If you were not raised in an original chasidic home no matter what you wear no matter what you try you'll never be a real Chosid. Almost all BT'S who put on hasidic clothing are making a mockery out of the true chasidim as well as a mockery out of themselves<br />You either are born with it or you're an outsider.<br />And yes there are loads of chassidishe individuals who are off the Derech who do not do justice to the original way of chasidic life with their style.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-73934272463108056582017-03-19T15:54:21.955+02:002017-03-19T15:54:21.955+02:00There is no such thing as a Chassidishe cult. If ...There is no such thing as a Chassidishe cult. If you want a cult (C"V), go to Arizona or something.....<br /><br />I know there are scandals sometimes in those Communities -- but just because there a handful of people who aren't good does not reflect on a Community......AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-39241499228386926852017-03-18T00:47:32.533+02:002017-03-18T00:47:32.533+02:00You no of know of no chasidishe cult? Really? How...You no of know of no chasidishe cult? Really? How about Breslov, Satmar , Sqver, Ger, etc. I mentioned a few of their cult meshugaas. But you probably are unaware of them because your don't consider their actions crazy or you just don't care. <br />Abenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-18865134221820894152017-03-16T21:38:36.432+02:002017-03-16T21:38:36.432+02:005:17 PM
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Um, well, my "story" is...5:17 PM<br />=======<br /><br />Um, well, my "story" isn't THAT extraordinary really -- probably nowhere near some of the people you'll meet. But nevertheless, if you would like, I can tell it to you on my blog (achsameac.blogspot.com) and we can talk there. <br /><br />Chazak!!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-836131371682451592017-03-16T20:39:20.304+02:002017-03-16T20:39:20.304+02:00Ben Torah 12:30 PM,
Really? DIN should take the ...Ben Torah 12:30 PM,<br /><br />Really? DIN should take the post down? And if they don't, the entire content of the blog is suspect as not leShem Shomayim? Nonsense.<br /><br />"And even worse is the picture with her breasts showing."<br /><br />Agreed! I think every fine, upstanding ben Torah should voice their loudest complaints about that picture and express their utter disgust with such a display! (immediately after appreciating it)<br /><br />Anyway, cute bra, isn't it? Chasidic black.Chafraud-Depravitchhttps://chafrauddepravitch.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-78264477834366047802017-03-16T20:26:31.254+02:002017-03-16T20:26:31.254+02:00Very enlightening. Thank youVery enlightening. Thank youMLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08409562727791481198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-89314659295117463092017-03-16T19:29:40.794+02:002017-03-16T19:29:40.794+02:00Agreed, Ben Torah!Agreed, Ben Torah!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-71623354262907298322017-03-16T18:30:20.789+02:002017-03-16T18:30:20.789+02:00All of the good you have done on this blog will be...All of the good you have done on this blog will be suspect as not leShem Shomayim if you don't take this horrible post. The article does nothing except serve the purposes of these bottom barrel baalei tayva to sic the Yetzer Horah on others. You are not exposing a scandal here. It is just pure maysis umaydiach. And even worse is the picture with her breasts showing. Are you trying to assist them to be machshil those with weak yirah?Ben Torahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-36042068374741841862017-03-16T07:30:10.297+02:002017-03-16T07:30:10.297+02:00It's called awarenessIt's called awarenessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-9431046173996575302017-03-16T02:08:58.818+02:002017-03-16T02:08:58.818+02:00Chafraud-Depravitch 1:13 PM
======================...Chafraud-Depravitch 1:13 PM<br />===========================<br /><br />Thanks for your kind words about my blog :)<br /><br />-------------------------------------------<br /><br />Abe 3:10 PM<br />===========<br /><br />I am not planning on joining any cult, thank you. There's no Chassidishe cult I know of. Just a nice sect such as Bobov, etc. I don't know yet, though.<br /><br />--------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br />5:17 PM<br />=======<br /><br />I don't really have such a..... well..... I sort of do. If you click on my ID it will take you to my blog -- we can talk there. Chazak to you as well!!<br /><br />Kol Tuv all!!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-49177643655074538512017-03-16T00:48:23.587+02:002017-03-16T00:48:23.587+02:00chusid101 @ dusiznies is promoting awareness, we ...chusid101 @ dusiznies is promoting awareness, we are not in the 1990s<br /><br />i have mixed feelings about this post but awareness always helps its needed etcAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-74514322279426450502017-03-15T23:17:32.653+02:002017-03-15T23:17:32.653+02:00@aish kodesh ignore the rest! U are more than welc... @aish kodesh ignore the rest! U are more than welcome! Thanx for ur kind words about healing! I'd love to get to know u and hear ur story if u want to share it with me etc CHAZAK acheeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-77759309823474797702017-03-15T22:19:38.191+02:002017-03-15T22:19:38.191+02:00Shame on u Dusiznies for posting and feeding garba...Shame on u Dusiznies for posting and feeding garbage for frum jews. whats wrong with you?chusid101https://www.blogger.com/profile/05387085252745659064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-4714941072413533672017-03-15T21:10:49.197+02:002017-03-15T21:10:49.197+02:00AishKodesh 9:02AM,
Which chasidishe cult do you p...AishKodesh 9:02AM,<br /><br />Which chasidishe cult do you plan on joining? The one that I which the men abandon their families and wander to Uman on the Yomim Noraim? Or the one that shaves their married women bald? Or the one that refuses to permit women to drive? Or the one that encourages men to to stop their vehicle in the middle of a busy road and begin jumping up and down singing ,screaming and yelling like drugged out zombies? Or maybe the cult with their 100(?) takanos that imposes insane sexual rules on their members ?<br />Joining a chasidishe cult is a bad idea. You'll probably wind up like these unfortunate folks. <br /><br />http://thoughtcatalog.com/gordon-haber/2015/07/the-10-most-bizarre-apocalyptic-scenarios-as-prophesied-by-religious-groups/Abenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-37188486990784320922017-03-15T19:52:58.794+02:002017-03-15T19:52:58.794+02:00No, I am not a Baal Teshuva.... I wish I did Teshu...No, I am not a Baal Teshuva.... I wish I did Teshuva more though :)<br /><br />xtian -- Baruch Hashem, I am not. Just a stam Yid. AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-37768145956695972032017-03-15T19:13:52.467+02:002017-03-15T19:13:52.467+02:00Anonymous March 15, 2017 at 4:28 AM
You're w...Anonymous March 15, 2017 at 4:28 AM<br /><br />You're welcome for the laugh. Thank you for the chassidish life reality check.<br /><br />Anonymous March 15, 2017 at 10:19 AM<br /><br />"Now aish Kodesh is pretending to be a ba'al teshuva."<br /><br />All baalei teshuva are 'pretending' to be "baalei teshuva" too.<br />It ultimately becomes just another silly label that Jews on that particular path shed when they grow up.<br /><br />"It's all Fake he's a born again Christian looking to lure Jewish people into a missionary trap"<br /><br />Hahaha, Really? A Christian missionary linking to a site with Torah parsha insights? It's a nice site. And hardly the kind of site a Christian missionary would maintain.Chafraud-Depravitchhttps://chafrauddepravitch.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-22213963555943887312017-03-15T16:19:54.201+02:002017-03-15T16:19:54.201+02:00Now aish Kodesh is pretending to be a ba'al te...Now aish Kodesh is pretending to be a ba'al teshuva.<br />It's all Fake he's a born again Christian looking to lure Jewish people into a missionary trapAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-1677127541957568072017-03-15T15:02:08.195+02:002017-03-15T15:02:08.195+02:004:14/4:28 AM:
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Thank you for your k...4:14/4:28 AM:<br /><br />=============<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words. I am trying to prmote more peace on here and hopefully, Be"H, less strife and Lashon Hara. As of now, I am not Chassidishe -- but I honeslty plan pn becoming so....<br /><br />Again, your words are so much appreciated! <br /><br />P.S. Absolutely correct and right on: We should not be judgmental -- each pefrson has gone through things that hurt them likely and we all need to heal. May Hashem heal us all very, very swiftly, Amein Vi'Amein!!!AishKodeshhttp://achsameach.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com