tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post4488066935684292887..comments2024-03-28T11:05:13.231+02:00Comments on DUS IZ NIES !! Rare View...: Single Girl in Shidduchim ..... Letter to the Editor Dusiznieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17159854165651441155noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-25968326587106795052016-09-05T05:39:45.202+03:002016-09-05T05:39:45.202+03:00why would the OLDER sister just pass her driving t...why would the OLDER sister just pass her driving test??! is the younger sister being married at 15? If not, then the older sister should not be worried about getting married if it took her 5 years to pass her road test. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-42226666204771099802016-09-04T17:18:35.798+03:002016-09-04T17:18:35.798+03:00Nobody is trying to minimize the lady's pain, ...Nobody is trying to minimize the lady's pain, but a few comments are in order.<br />You're obviously angry at people who have nothing to do with your situation, and because of the many weddings B"E"Y" these days, probably don't even want to show up, are tired, and come to say Mazel Tov and make the familes happy by showing up altogether.<br /> You're giving a lesson on what and what not to say, much the same as nichum aveilik'niks are told what to say and what not to say at shiva calls.<br />Can you cut us some slack? People mean well. <br /> Maybe your anger is at G-D, so why take it out on people who mean no harm.<br />Your references to Peninina-Chana, and Syog Lachochmo Shtika is tough.<br /> Penina & Chana lived under the same roof and she harassed her constantly. Let's take the view that she meant it l'Shem Shomayim and wanted Chana to daven. For sure Chana davened already but now she took a step further and went to daven at the Mishkan site.<br /> Surely, you also daven, and you should keep davening .... Maybe make a trip to EY, to the Kotel, to other mekomos hakdoshim... Maybe you already did... Well, do it again or ask someone's that going to daven for you.... Chana didn't say, as many do, that Hashem is everywhere and I'll daven at my local shtiebel... She made pilgrimage to the Mishkan site... After that, it's up to Hashem...<br />Shtika doesn't apply .... One has to speak to be menachem the avel, one has to speak and comfort the sick, and wish a Mazal Tov to balei simcha verbally and make them happy..<br />Everybody has issues , but your hostility and bitterness is misdirected at innocent people ...<br /> Since even a birchas hedyot is significant, then a bracha by some guest to you can affect something in order to bring you happiness in the near future...<br /> Don't put guilt trips and speech restrictions on people because you're angry...<br /><br />the DerbyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-13775810018451585412016-09-03T00:49:20.344+03:002016-09-03T00:49:20.344+03:00I bet they are only in Their low 20s. Why do they ...I bet they are only in Their low 20s. Why do they pressure themselves. Hot Chanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11032628938983037472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-30575780313356454172016-09-02T22:35:42.387+03:002016-09-02T22:35:42.387+03:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Monseyhttp://www.criminaljustice.ny.gov/SomsSUBDirectory/ReCaptchaServlet?offenderId=41885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-12800121274796757312016-09-02T22:25:21.473+03:002016-09-02T22:25:21.473+03:00Sad that a person can be so tzebissen & misgui...Sad that a person can be so tzebissen & misguided. Feeling good for her sister despite her own tzaar can bring her own yeshua closer min haShamayim where they appreciate working hard for a more positive attitude.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com