tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post1685862491412656701..comments2024-03-28T10:43:20.852+02:00Comments on DUS IZ NIES !! Rare View...: Monsey Shadchanim "Askanim" Come Up with Crazed Scheme Dusiznieshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17159854165651441155noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-45523690339723231882018-08-07T05:16:36.313+03:002018-08-07T05:16:36.313+03:00while not a bad idea to have shadchanim charge alo...while not a bad idea to have shadchanim charge along the way, as the Gemorah makes a distinction between a Shomer Chinum and a Shomer Sachar. If shadchanim are paid along the was, the degree of responsibility they will have will increase.<br />I believe the main issue that is the Shiduch Crisis is whether people are ready to date and or why are people dating. a 19 year old Beis Yackov girl typically is not ready nor in a position to support a boy learning in Yeshiva. A boy who may be of age for marriage but is using it as a way to get normal living conditions and good food while he is learning seems missed directed.<br />To quote the Famous Rabbi Avraham J Twersky, "Marriage is not a Hospital" ie it will not fix your problems.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-70257708300967571502018-02-19T14:34:10.544+02:002018-02-19T14:34:10.544+02:00I'm sure there's an app for that too. They...I'm sure there's an app for that too. They just need to buy a smart phone or laptop.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-35812045524332360562018-02-19T09:48:23.389+02:002018-02-19T09:48:23.389+02:00“Shidduch Crisis” -- Hilarious!
They reproduce en...“Shidduch Crisis” -- Hilarious!<br /><br />They reproduce enough.<br />So there must be choices in their population. Yet they have a "crisis?"<br /><br />Primitives, with their primitive match-making scheme to sustain another religious-based industry.<br /><br />I'm sure if this stupid "match-making" process was eliminated people would still get married, have sex, and reproduce. That was God's plan (at least the last two were).<br /><br />We turn the basics of human instinct into money-making schemes and then wonder why we're stereotyped as a greedy, money-hungry people.<br /><br />Their "crisis" is laughable.Chafraud-Depravitchhttps://chafrauddepravitch.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-60672374872345104072018-02-19T02:01:49.152+02:002018-02-19T02:01:49.152+02:00Shove it up my canShove it up my canAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-32560106260909507212018-02-18T23:10:15.615+02:002018-02-18T23:10:15.615+02:00Whoever thought this harebrained scheme up has nev...Whoever thought this harebrained scheme up has never learnt or had explained to them the 'law of diminishing returns' and that it affects ALL factions of society, holy as well as secular. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-56427311763960208522018-02-18T22:02:59.536+02:002018-02-18T22:02:59.536+02:00Corrupt FrummiesCorrupt FrummiesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2633952367455665536.post-10652515486494255622018-02-18T20:30:06.568+02:002018-02-18T20:30:06.568+02:00Hey DIN, a person needs to make a living one way o...Hey DIN, a person needs to make a living one way or another,it's either they will have 10 TALMIDEI CHACHAMIM saying TEHILIM for you at AMUKAH for a hefty fee,or they will send you on dates for a nice fee.<br />This is the heavy price our FRUM community is paying for the criminal insanity of not giving our children a decent enough secular education.and i include myself too,as i am guilty of the same insanityFRUM BUT NORMALnoreply@blogger.com